"It is not about the other person" - Unknown
This is a great reminder. If we make it about the other person then we have just given away our power to change the situation. Because if it is about the other person then they have total control.
Maybe we need to remind ourselves that IT IS ABOUT ME! Not in an ego driven way but firmly asserting that we must have control in order to change the situation.
The unfortunate truth is that we want it to be about the other person. Then they can be the reason. The reason for us not getting what we want or need. Never operate from a position of giving away control.
Today's question is:
"How do you remind yourself that it is about you NOT the other person?"
This is a great reminder. If we make it about the other person then we have just given away our power to change the situation. Because if it is about the other person then they have total control.
Maybe we need to remind ourselves that IT IS ABOUT ME! Not in an ego driven way but firmly asserting that we must have control in order to change the situation.
The unfortunate truth is that we want it to be about the other person. Then they can be the reason. The reason for us not getting what we want or need. Never operate from a position of giving away control.
Today's question is:
"How do you remind yourself that it is about you NOT the other person?"
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