Becoming an Attractive Person
"Magic mirror in my
hand, who is the fairest in the land?"- the evil queen
This post has nothing to do
with beauty. It does have to do with
being more attractive. What I am talking
about is becoming attractive in the sense of having more opportunities that come
into your life.
Most of us can relate to the
concept of dating. I am sure that most
of us have gone through periods of our adult lives when we were not dating
anyone but wanted to. In my opinion the
worst thing that one can do is force things.
You can put yourself in situations where you believe a potential mate
can be found. Going to a bar to find someone is a foolish strategy. It is hard to stand out.
I believe that doing a search this way is
foolish strategy. In my life I have
always followed an alternate strategy. I
believe that during those periods when doing a search the best that I can do is to work on myself. This was something I can control. I could not control whether someone found me
attractive. Unbelievable as it may seem,
when I followed this strategy I immediately was found.
This strategy can also be used when looking for a job opportunity. Unlike many, I do
not believe in applying to many jobs.
The result that we would wish for can not be controlled by applying for
many jobs. But improving what is on your
resume is something you can control. With
LinkedIn it is even easier for this strategy to work. Many recruiters all looking through profiles for
that attractive person to fit a role that they need to fill. If you improve your profile, recruiters will
find you more attractive.
Today’s question is:
“What would make you more
attractive?”
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