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Saturday, December 21, 2013

365QOD- Day1050

Hurting Others

"If you truly loved yourself, you could never hurt another."-    Buddha

 I do not intentionally hurt others. But... it does happen.  I snap and without thought I say or do something that others perceive as hurtful.  This is where focused breathing helps to stop the blood from boiling.

The quote gives a very difficult task.   To truly love oneself is very hard.   We often talk the talk but fail to live up to that level.  It must be that we do not feel "enough" and just take it out on the people around us.

Maybe we should reverse it and work on the second part of the quote first?  Work on not purposely trying to hurt anyone and we might just get to the level of truly living ourselves. I think that most of us approach life and relationships in this fashion already. Judging by the amount of pain in the world, I do not believe it to be very effective.

So what is the answer?  We have to remember that the Buddha left his wife and  princely life in order to find himself.  This seems selfish to most of us but maybe by being selfish and truly developing yourself one can evolve to this level of love for others.

Today's question is:
"Do you truly love yourself?"

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